03 August 2010CE | 23 Shaban 1431AH

Ramadan 2010

We are spending Ramadan and `Eid in Singapore in shaa Allah so I am packing!

1. Qur’an and tafseer books ☑

2. Touched by An Angel CDs and Study Guide

3. Stories of the Prophet by Ibn Kathir ☑

4. The Sealed Nectar by Sheikh Safi ur Rahman Mubarakpuri ☑

5. Words of Remembrance and Words of Reminder by Dr. Saalih ibn Ghaanim al-Sadlaan ☑

6. Recharge Your Faith by Amirah Mauthoor (jazakillah khayran Fruitful Fusion!) ☑

7. Productive Ramadan Webinars

8. Ramadan Journal and Copywork for the kids ☑

9. My Islamic audio stash ☑

10. Ramadan recipe book ☑

What are you preparing? :)



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01 August 2010CE | 21 Shaban 1431AH

The Sands of Time

It has been a sobering week for us. In the light of recent events and with Ramadan just around the corner, I realise how fleeting time - LIFE - is. We don’t even know if we will live to take our next breath and yet we are complacent… heedless.

I wrote an article a few years ago which I posted on my main site, Imaan.Net. I am reposting it here to remind myself to buck up before my time is up.

The Sands of Time

The Messenger of Allah sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam said: “Take benefit of five before five: your youth before your old age, your health before your sickness, your wealth before your poverty, your free time before your preoccupation, and your life before your death.” [al-Haakim, al-Baihaqee: Saheeh]

I read a transcript of a lecture some time ago which spoke about the value of time. The speaker emphasised that al-waqt - time - is more valuable than gold and silver and should be treated like the precious commodity it is.

There are a whole 24 hours in a single day and yet it seems to pass in a blink of an eye, leaving us with a slew of unfinished tasks and unaccomplished goals. How often have we regretfully said, “Where did the minutes and hours of the day go?”

Have you seen how an hourglass works? Dried sand passes from one container to another through a narrow aperature. Once the sand runs out, you turn the hourglass over and the whole process begins again. But life is not an hourglass that you can just flip and start over. Time passes like the fleeting wind and once gone, can never be gotten back.

Each and every second of our time should be dedicated to Islam, to the remembrance of and obedience to Allah. Truly, there is so much that can be done… so much that NEEDS to be done.

Allah in His Infinite Mercy has blessed us with a variety of acts of worship to do - some are physical such as prayer; some are financial such as zakat and sadaqah; some are spoken such as du`aa and dhikr. Perhaps the wisdom behind this provision is that it addresses the different inclinations and abilities of the people. Some people may enjoy some kinds of worship more than others.

Indeed, Allah has made gates of Paradise according to the different types of worship. According to a hadeeth narrated by Abu Hurayrah radhiallahu `anhu hadeeth, the Messenger of Allah sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam said: “Whoever spends on a pair for the sake of Allah will be called from the gates of Paradise, ‘O slave of Allah, this is good.’ Whoever is one of the people of prayer will be called from the gate of prayer. Whoever is one of the people of jihad will be called from the gate of jihad. Whoever is one of the people of fasting will be called from the gate of al-Rayyan. Whoever is one of the people of charity will be called from the gate of charity.” [Bukhari]

Abdullah ibn Mas’ood radhiallahu `anhu said, “I have never regretted anything as much as I regret a day on which the sun set, my term was shortened and my deeds did not increase.”

Let us heed the warnings of those who came before us. `Umar ibn Abdul-Aziz advised, “The night and the day are surely acting upon you, so act you therein.”

As `Umar al-Khattab said:

“Allahumma innaa nas’aluka salaaha as-saa’aati wa al-barakata fiy al-awqaati.”
“O Allah, we ask you righteousness of the hour and your blessing in our time.”



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15 July 2010CE | 04 Shaban 1431AH

Narration - Prophet Ayoub

Lives of the Prophets - Prophet Ayoub (Job), `alayhis salaam
narrated by Ms M. Kiyani

Once, there was a man named Ayoub. He was a Prophet of Allah and he was a wealthy man. He had many children and a good wife. He had every kind of wealth - he had cattle, land, a big house and a lot of money.

But one day, Allah decided to test him, which meant that all his wealth was taken from him. All his children died and even his health was taken away from him. One by one, his family began to desert him. Finally, the whole town threw him out of the city onto a rubbish heap. Some scholars say that his flesh began to fall off, leaving only muscle and bone behind.

His wife stayed with him, carrying out things he could not do. One by one, the people did not hire her as she was the wife of Ayoub. One day, she became so desperate that she went to the rich people of the town and sold her braid for good food. She brought the food to Ayoub `alayhis salaam and he asked her, “Where did you get this food?”

She gave a very vague answer, saying, “I provided service somewhere.”

The next day, again, she became desperate and she sold her other braid for good food. When she brought it to Ayoub `alayhis salaam, he refused to eat it, saying, “I will not eat this food until you tell me how you got it.” She removed her hijab/scarf and he saw that her hair had been cut. He was very angry and upset and swore that he would beat her a hundred times.

One day, Ayoub `alayhis salaam was instructed by Allah to strike the ground with his foot and from that place, there came a pool of water gushing. He was instructed to bathe in the water and while he bathed, all his sickness was washed away. After he had bathed, Allah sent to him a dress from Paradise. He was told to put this on by Allah and after that, he sat down in a corner.

When his wife came, she did not find Ayoub `alayhis salaam as she had left him and she did not recognise him. She asked the man who was sitting there, “O servant of Allah. Where is the man who was inflicted with disease when I left him? I am afraid that the dogs or wolves have carried him away and eaten him.” She kept talking.

When she stopped talking, Ayoub `alayhis salaam stood up and said, “O my wife. I am Ayoub.”

She said, “Do not mock me!”

He said, “It is me. I am Ayoub.”

Then, she finally recognised him.

All his children were returned to him and the like of them.

All his wealth was returned to him and then more.

On top of all that, Allah rained down golden locusts on top of him. He was catching them in the folds of his clothes and Allah said, “O Ayoub! Have you not enough of my blessings?”

Ayoub `alayhis salaam laughed and said, “O Allah! No one can have enough of your blessings.”

Ayoub had to beat his wife a hundred times because he had promised, remember? He did not really want to beat his wife because she had been a good lady when he was sick and had worked without complaint. He had lost control in the heat of the moment. Allah told him to tie bundle of one hundred reeds together and to tap his wife once.

I learnt from Ayoub `alayhis salaam that you should always be patient. He never complained about his sickness and he was always grateful for what Allah had given him in the past seventy years. We should also follow in his footsteps in being grateful. We should also follow his wife because she was a good woman and never complained about her husband’s disease and having to work hard.

The reward from Allah is great for one who is patient.



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14 July 2010CE | 03 Shaban 1431AH

Islamic Homeschooling

Tea & A Think

My buddy Iram who homeschools her 3 lovely children in California has returned to blogging. About time! She has a million wonderful things to share and her latest post on The Islamic Homeschool is a real gem, ma shaa Allah.



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02 December 2009CE | 14 Dhul-Hijjah 1430AH

Road to Hajj

Mahera, this is for you and your girls :) I hope they feel better… Jazakillah khayran for being such good pals to us :)

A little belated but I have been having laptop and connection issues. I hope homeschooling is going well for everyone. We are wrapping the year up and in shaa Allah hoping to move one to bigger and better things come January. This has been a hectic and tumultuous year and while we know that the only constancy in life is change, we would welcome some stability so we can focus on our “book learnin’”. I hope you’ll all make du`aa for us :)

My girls and I thoroughly enjoyed a special series called “Road to Hajj”. Al Jazeera followed Muslims from China, Japan, Azerbaijan, Panama and India as they embarked on the Hajj pilgrimage. We also watched two additional videos - one about a lady from Gaza whose husband was killed before he could perform Hajj and one about a lady from Kenya who saved for 7 years to make her special trip. We found them very inspiring and shed a tear or two when we witnessed their struggle and sincerity.



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02 September 2009CE | 12 Ramadhan 1430AH

Ramadan Freebie - 2

Two years ago, in Shawwal, my friend Raihanah organised a Ramadan Outing for the homeschoolers’ group in Singapore. She delivered a short talk on Islam and fasting to the non-Muslim homeschooling families. They then moved on to various stations set up by the Muslim homeschoolers where they sampled different types of dates, learnt how to make a paper fanoos (lantern), tried their hand at weaving paper ketupat (Malay rice cakes cooked in woven leaves) and experimented with mosaic art. Two dads conducted a tour of Sultan Mosque as well. The day ended off with lunch at a Middle Eastern restaurant.

My kids had lots of fun that day - they are always so excited to meet with other homeschoolers. They loved that they were able to talk about their deen. The day was all the more meaningful because their dad was able to join in - he travels a lot and isn’t always able to participate in any homeschool events.

We made a few printables that day and I thought I’d share one with you… It is a petal book in PDF format about “A Day In Ramadan”. Nothing too fancy - just a summary of what one does in a typical day in Ramadan. I hope you like it. *S*

DOWNLOAD “A DAY IN RAMADAN” PETAL BOOK



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29 August 2009CE | 08 Ramadhan 1430AH

Ramadan Freebie - 1

Here is a little something for fans of lapbooks, notebooks, mini-books and what not *S*

It is a fan book about “Why Ramadan Is Special”. There are blank fan templates provided for those who want to add in more information or who want to encourage their children to write their own reflections. It is in PDF format so if you don’t have Adobe Acrobat, GO GET IT! I’m not putting this up in MS WORD because you would lose the nifty fonts *S*

OK so without further ado, here is the file!

DOWNLOAD “WHY RAMADAN IS SPECIAL” FAN BOOK

* I said to print on coloured paper but only because lapbooks look more attractive that way. You can of course use white paper - the book itself has clipart which are in colour. If you do use coloured paper, use light pastels.



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13 August 2009CE | 21 Shaban 1430AH

Oh for crying out loud!

A couple of very stupid comments from the officials in France who actually think they sound believable! Or maybe they don’t really care to convince. *shrug*

“These clothes are used in public, so they can contain molecules, viruses, et cetera, which will go in the water and could be transmitted to other bathers.”

Emerainville Mayor Alan Kelyor said he could not understand why the woman would want to swim in head-to-toe clothes. “We are going back in civilization,” he said by telephone. Women have fought for decades for equal rights with men, he said. “Now we are putting them back in burqas and veils.”

So… who’s discriminating whom?

French pool bars Muslim woman for ‘burquini’ suit
By Maria Danilova, Associated Press Writer – Wed Aug 12, 7:05 pm ET

PARIS – A Muslim woman garbed in a head-to-toe swimsuit — dubbed a “burquini” — may have opened a new chapter in France’s tussle between religious practices and its stern secular code.

Officials insisted Wednesday they banned the woman’s use of the Islam-friendly suit at a local pool because of France’s pool hygiene standards — not out of hostility to overtly Muslim garb.

Under the policy, swimmers are not allowed in pools with baggy clothing, including surfer-style shorts. Only figure-hugging suits are permitted.

Nonetheless the woman, a 35-year-old convert to Islam identified only as Carole, complained of religious discrimination after trying to go swimming in a “burquini,” a full-body swimsuit, in the town of Emerainville, southeast of Paris.

She was quoted as telling the daily Le Parisien newspaper that she had bought the burquini after deciding “it would allow me the pleasure of bathing without showing too much of myself, as Islam recommends.”

“For me this is nothing but segregation,” she said.

The issue of religious attire is a hot topic in France, where head-to-toe burqas or other full-body coverings worn by some Muslim fundamentalists are in official disfavor.

France is home to western Europe’s largest Muslim population, estimated at 5 million, and Islam is the nation’s second religion after Roman Catholicism.

A 2004 law banning the wearing of Muslim head scarves at public schools sparked fierce debate. That legislation also banned Jewish skullcaps and large Christian crosses in public classrooms.

French lawmakers recently revived the issue of Muslim dress with a proposal that the burqa and other voluminous Muslim attire be banned.

President Nicolas Sarkozy, a conservative, backs the move, saying such garb makes women prisoners.

The “burquini” covers the arms to the wrists and the legs to the ankle and has a hood to cover neck and hair.

An official in charge of swimming pools for the Emerainville region, Daniel Guillaume, said the refusal to allow the local woman to swim in her “burquini” had nothing to do with religion and everything to do with public health standards.

“These clothes are used in public, so they can contain molecules, viruses, et cetera, which will go in the water and could be transmitted to other bathers,” Guillaume said in a telephone interview.

“We reminded this woman that one should not bathe all dressed, just as we would tell someone who is a nudist not to bathe all naked,” he said.

Guillaume said France’s public health standards require all pool-goers to don swimsuits for women and tight, swimming briefs for men — and caps to cover their hair. Bathers also must shower before entering the water.

Guillaume said Carole had tried to file a complaint at a local police station, but her request was turned down as groundless.

Carole told the daily Le Parisien she would protest with the help of anti-discrimination groups.

Emerainville Mayor Alan Kelyor said he could not understand why the woman would want to swim in head-to-toe clothes.

“We are going back in civilization,” he said by telephone. Women have fought for decades for equal rights with men, he said. “Now we are putting them back in burqas and veils.”

The suits have a clear market.

Women “jump on the occasion so they can swim with their families. Otherwise, they end up staying on the beach and watching,” said Leila Mouhoubia, who runs an online site from France that specializes in the sale of Islamic swimsuits. Sales, she said, are strong.

“I think it’s forbidden (in France) because it presents an image of the Muslim woman (and) they have prejudices against Muslims,” she said by telephone. “They want women to be undressed.”

Mouloud Aounit, head of the anti-racism group known as MRAP, said the decision to ban Carole from the pool appeared fair, since pool authorities were observing regulations. But Aounit lamented that the incident was likely to fuel religious tensions.

“The rules must be the same for everybody, regardless of the color of their skin or their religion,” Aounit said. “The concern I have is that this case will again lead to stigmatization of the Muslim population in France.”

The all-body suits, worn regularly by some women in Muslim countries, are growing popular in the West. They can be seen on female Muslim lifeguards on Australian beaches, in the United States and various European countries, from the Netherlands to Sweden — which OKed them after two women won discrimination cases last year.



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09 August 2009CE | 17 Shaban 1430AH

Prophets of Islam - Course Outline

Little Stars of Islam is site that is starting out but already has quite a few gems on it! ما شاء الله!

Check out the curriculum outline for My Prophets in Islam Course*!

* link to MS Word file



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05 August 2009CE | 13 Shaban 1430AH

Qur'an Resources

What is worse than a migraine? Napping and waking up an hour later bathed in perspiration because the power is cut off in the most humid of Pakistani summers with the said migraine doubled in intensity.

Yesterday was THAT kind of day but alhamdulillah `alaa kulli haal… You know, I have become used to the load shedding. I have. It happens three times a day, each lasting an hour. We know exactly when it is going to happen and for how long so when the electricity is cut, we invade my mum-in-law’s territory (it is cooler downstairs) or just try to keep ourselves occupied till it is turned back on.

Still, the city’s development council decided to mess with my mind just so I don’t get too sure of myself. They cut the power at a different time AND for a much longer period! I was about to bust a gut stressing over whether I could iron my kids’ karate gi in time for the class when not only was the power restored, but the rain came down! The neighbours’ kids came over and they all had a grand old time in the rain. I was quite the contented one - I managed to get the kids’ uniforms all nice and spanky if only so they could get them all filthy dirty within 5 minutes of the class :)

Anyway, just so this doesn’t turn into a completely vacuous post, I thought I would talk about a few gems which have helped us with our Qur’an lessons:

Colour-coded Tajweed Mushaf - When Ms M was in Singapore, her teachers at the masjid used a set of readers that thoroughly frustrated her. The book was poorly designed and the verses were printed extremely closely together so much so that Ms M would feel overwhelmed just LOOKING at the pages. (I admit, the readers intimidated me too! *S*) Ms M would return home looking very down each day, saying that she had to repeat her assignments. I was a little taken aback because she was already reading the Qur’an at home and doing it rather well ma shaa Allah. It was only when I saw the books that I realised why her progress was poor. We bought her her own mushaf which looks like this one and once she moved on from the readers, there was no holding her back alhamdulillah. The font - Uthmanic script - suits her well and the layout is also easy on the eye. The tajweed rules are colour-coded to help her recite and pronounce properly - I know some purists who disagree on relying on these masaahif and insist that one should memorise the tajweed rules instead. In shaa Allah I hope that my kids and I will do so, but until then, these are extremely helpful.

Touched By An Angel - Tafseer of Juz `Amma Touched by An Angel - Tafseer of Juz Amma by Muhammad Alshareef - This is a 16-CD set (audio) of a seminar given by AlMaghrib Institute solely dedicated to the explanation of Part 30 of the Qur’an. I like that the speaker warns listeners that a large number of people never actually listen or complete the CDs they purchase. This helps put us into serious learning mode. Muhammad Alshareef has a very engaging style and a talent for examples that strike a chord so lessons are nothing short of inspiring.

You can download a free Study Guide & Personal Notebook Exam. The Study Guide is about 200 pages long and contains useful notes, translations and explanations of the verses as well as quizzes. It is well-designed with space for students to write down gems they glean from the lectures.

Methodical Interpretation of the Noble Qur'an Methodical Interpretation of the Noble Qur’an - This textbook provides an overview of every Surah. Lessons include translations of verses, lists of important vocabulary, tafseer and points that students can ponder over. There are questions that students can tackle as well. I found the tafseer section a little brief, but parents/teachers can easily supplement with other texts. It is well organised so if you are short on time, this book will help you through lessons. Easy on the eye layout and hardcover. I hope that Darussalam will publish more of such books for the other parts of the Qur’an.

Ad-Duha’s Tafseer books for young students - Ms M was very proud to get her own set of tafseer books. Ad-Duha’s books are very much on the Qur’an and Sunnah and they are informative yet easy for young readers. Each book comes with a summary of the surah, its commentary and questions for narration/comprehension. These help a great deal in promoting self-study and revision. Ad-Duha’s site is closed for maintenance at the moment, but will be open before Ramadan in shaa Allah. More good reads in store I hope!

Juz Amma Teacher with children’s repetition- Ms M’s favourite qari is Meshary Rashid Alafasy so last `Eid, we gave her this 2-CD set as a gift. The qari reads a verse and his students (adorable sounding children ma shaa Allah!) repeat after him. Sometimes the students make mistakes and Sh Afasy corrects them (in Arabic) and requests that they repeat the verse. My kids find this cute and feel heartened that they aren’t the only ones making mistakes. The clear recording, Sh Afasy’s melodious voice and the children’s distinct enunciation make it a pleasurable listen.

Juz Amma Teacher with ’space’ - I don’t have this CD set but I understand that it follows the same format as the previous CD. The only difference is that there is a blank ’space’ after the qari recites to allow the listener to attempt the same verse.

Ahl-ul Qur'an Gear CDAhl ul Qur’an Gear by Haroon Baqai - This 9-CD set was given to us by a dear sister in Singapore as a farewell gift when we moved to Pakistan :) It contains recitation (with a pause / blank ’space’ for you to practise after the qari), exercises and review from Surah an-Naas to Surah al-’Alaa. I think that it is nice for the young ones as the qari speaks to the listener in a gentle and encouraging way. (He speaks in English by the way.)

Qur’an Plugin for MS Word - - This is a very nice tool for Qur’an studies ma shaa Allah. With it, you can insert verses from the Qur’an and also the translation into your documents. The English translation is `Abdullah Yusuf `Ali’s. There are other translations available as well: French, German, Bosnian, Malay, Farsi, Russian, etc. I love it because I’ve been able to create my own tafseer booklets, copywork / notebooking material for the kids’ Qur’an studies.



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03 August 2009CE | 11 Shaban 1430AH

Crafty Business This Ramadan

Here are a few ideas for Ramadan… and beyond :)

Learning Stuff

Calendar Ideas
Those marked * are Advent Calendar ideas - I thought they could be adapted for a Ramadan Calendar to count number of days fasted. They can also contain rewards for the little ones, supplications to memorise, acts of sunnah to be learnt and acts of kindness to be carried out.

Decor & Art

Gift/Charity Ideas

Dates!

Moon Phases



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11 January 2009CE | 13 Muharram 1430AH

Hajj Diary

My good pal and the more prolific half of Tea and A Think, Mujrimah, has written a series of articles detailing her Hajj experience. She has photographs and lovely gems to share so be sure to give it a read.


“My Hajj Experience” by Mujrimah

Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 4
Part 5
Part 6
Part 7
Part 8
Concluding Remarks



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07 January 2009CE | 09 Muharram 1430AH

Spend

Muslim Hands Islamic Relief

“The likeness of those who spend their wealth in the way of Allah is as the likeness of a grain [of corn], it grows seven ears and each year has a hundred grains. Allah gives manifold increase to whom He wills. And Allah is All Sufficient for His creatures’ needs, All-Knower.” [Surah al-Baqarah 2:261]



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06 January 2009CE | 08 Muharram 1430AH

You will know...

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“And We place the scales of justice for the Day of Resurrection,
so no soul will be treated unjustly at all.
And if there is (even) the weight of a mustard seed,
We will bring it forth.
And sufficient are We to take account.”
(Surah al-Anbiya 21:47)

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“Oppression (dhulm) will be darkness (dhulumat) on the Day of Resurrection.”
(Bukhari & Muslim)

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You will learn on the Day when Allah will gather the former and the latter peoples…
when hands and feet will tell about what they did,
then you will know!

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That day the matter between you and us will be settled.



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06 January 2009CE | 08 Muharram 1430AH

My brothers and sisters...

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“Any person who betrays a Muslim whose sanctity is being violated and reputation is being dishonored, Allah will betray him when he is in need of help and any person who protects a Muslim whose sanctity is being violated and reputation is being dishonored, Allah will assist him when he is in need of help.” (Related by Abu Dawud)

May Allah give courage and fortitude to our brothers and sisters in Ghazza… May He forgive the shuhada of Ghazza and may He grant the mujahideen victory, ameen.



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08 December 2006CE | 17 Dhul-Qadah 1427AH

Wipe the slate clean...

“There are three sins, whoever dies free of these sins will be forgiven for anything else if Allah wills: associating anything with Allah; practicing magic or witchcraft; and bearing resentment towards his brother.”
(al-Bukhari)

Ms M and I got into a heated argument once after she had broken a house rule. I gave her a lecture and she apologised. That should have been that… but it wasn’t. The incident continued to rankle me, so much so that I gave her the business end of a hissy fit long after.

“Ummi?” she said later.

“Yes?” I said, sounding as cold and aloof as I could possibly manage.

“Hmmm… why are you talking like that? Are you mad at me?”

“Yes,” I replied curtly, dismissing her with a withering tone and look.

“Still?”

Her tone was one of pure incredulity. Bless her pure soul, she could not fathom why anyone would continue to harbour resentment when an issue is said and done.

Indeed, why would anyone? I realised then how petty I was (am…) and how, with me, forgiveness is a long-drawn process with accusations and resentment along the way and conditions and clauses to boot.

With my daughter, however, these issues are uncomplicated. She pardons a wrong quite effortlessly in general, gets over things and moves right on along. I think it is the same with most children unless adults teach them otherwise.

We are told in the Qur’an: “And remind, for indeed, the reminder benefits the believers.” (Surah Adh-Dhaariyaat: 55) I am quite ashamed to say that my reminders are so often coated in exasperation, impatience and a great deal of negativity.

Ms M, however, corrects me with love. I say with love, because even though her reminders are sometimes delivered without tact or sensitivity, I believe they are motivated by her affection for and loyalty to me. They are particular to the time and place - no mention is made of past mistakes how ever many times they continue to recur. They aren’t judgemental or critical either - nothing is implied about the sum whole of me.

I am humbled. May Allah forgive me, ameen.

So I will say what I have said a million times over. Sweetpea, I am profoundly grateful to Allah for you and your sister and for all the love and joy I don’t feel I deserve. I am sorry for not being the best mum I should be.

I am sorry for always apologising and not yet learning the gracious art of forgiving and forgetting.



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29 November 2006CE | 08 Dhul-Qadah 1427AH

The Art of Noise

Music was a big thing for me when I was growing up. I used to record MTV and play the videos over and over again and was hardly seen without a pair of headphones in my ears. I was first in line at the music store when U2’s Achtung Baby was released - actually, I got there before the shipment of the album arrived and had to return a few hours later. I felt really together.

But I wasn’t really.

My being so ‘together’ cost me a great deal - money I could have spent on charity and on beneficial reads … time I could have spent cultivating good habits instead of acquiring wicked ones that stubbornly dog me … energy I could have spent on pursuits that could have drawn me closer to my Lord… the list goes on.

Even after I gave up listening to music, I resisted throwing my CDs and tapes away. I guess I was still, in some small and twisted way, enthralled with these musicians, their beguiling tunes and poetic lyrics. I don’t know why I wanted to maintain some tie to my past and my former ‘role models’. It is funny how strong a hold the dunya has and how foolish the human being can be.

I began reading more about my religion and I felt small. I felt really small. I read about giants who truly had the stuff that legends are made of. They had so much love, passion and drive for the deen. I wondered why my heart felt so impervious… so dead.

Then I read this hadeeth: Anas said that a man came to the Prophet sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam and asked, “When will the Last Hour come, Messenger of Allah?” , “What have you prepared for it?” he asked? He replied, “I have not prepared a lot of prayer or fasting or charity for it, but I love Allah and His Messenger.” The Prophet said, “You will be with the one you love.” (al-Bukhari) I realised then that I was just hanging on to dead weight. Did I really want to be raised with the likes of Mick Jagger, Kurt Cobain and James Hetfield? The very idea scared me. It took several garbage bags to get rid of the physical burden. The emotional ties? For the most part erased, but still a constant struggle.

I would like to spare my kids of all this. I know I may not be able to shield them from all the evils and temptations in this world, but I make du`aa that they will form a deep attachment to the Qur’an and Sunnah and that they will have such a deep love for the true heroes that they will not look up to lesser characters, who will only disappoint them with their compromise, misplaced tolerance and about turn on ideals.

As a hadeeth states: It is related that a man came to the Prophet sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam and said, “Messenger of Allah, I love you more than my family and my possessions. I remember you and I cannot wait until I can come and look at you. I remember that I will die and you will die and I know that when you enter the Garden, you will be raised up with the Prophets. When I enter it, I will not see you.” Allah then revealed, “Whoever obeys Allah and the Messenger, will be with those whom Allah has blessed: the Prophets, the men of truth, the martyrs and the righteous. And such people are the best of company!” (an-Nisaa 4:68) The Prophet sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam called the man and recited the verses to him. (at-Tabarani)

Sister Fatima Barakatullah has written a timely article that touches on music and the nasheed culture. She expresses what I haven’t the eloquence to say. Please read it here:

Global Peace & Unity Event by Fatima Barakatullah

If you are blocked from blogspot sites, you may access her site through feeds at say, Bloglines, or by using PK Blogs.



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09 May 2006CE | 11 Rabbi al-Thanni 1427AH

I must remind myself

supplication


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26 November 2005CE | 24 Shawwal 1426AH

Yeah that!

Seen and heard..

Mum: It was nice of Aunty and her grand-daughter to visit. Did you like playing with Maymuna?

Kid: Yes, it was fun. She had a nice shawl on, didn’t she?

Mum: Yes! It was lovely ma shaa Allah… hey, it was nice of you to share your blocks with Maymuna.

Kid: Well, she was our guest. Her doll was cute. She didn’t let me play with it.

Mum: She must have thought you would take it away from her. She eased up once we told her that you wouldn’t, right?

Kid: Yeah.

Mum: Anyway, sometimes you will find people who won’t share even after you’ve shared your stuff.

Kid: Yeah. You should still share though.

Mum: Why?

Kid: Cos you don’t do it so they’ll share. You do it so Allah will be pleased.



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21 November 2005CE | 19 Shawwal 1426AH

Islamic History - Audio

I love Islamic lectures. I remember when my husband and I were based in the USA and would have to make long road trips to visit relatives in Chicago and Indiana. We would get a stack of CDs and some munchies and we would be good to go.

Now that I am a mother, there are days when it is hard to find the time or muster the energy to sit down and read. When Ms Muffet was still a baby, I had to stop attending a Tafseer class as she refused to let anyone look after her (including her dad!). It made me so sad truly and I felt very bereft ilm-wise. I thought at first that my CDs and mp3s were a poor substitute but really… alhamdulillah, I’ve learnt quite a bit *S* Like I told a sister, you take the `ilm wherever you can get it, however you can get it!

Anyway, here are lectures on Islamic History that you might enjoy - the ones without links are not free/downloadable lectures. You’ll have to purchase the CDs.

By Anwar Al-Awlaki

By Suhayb Hassan

By Abu `Ammar Yasir Qadhi

By Jamaal al-Din M. Zarabozo

By Yahya Adel Ibrahim

By Abu Ameenah Bilal Philips

By Dr Jaa`far Sheikh Idris

By Muhammad Syed Adly

  • Prophecies of the Prophet, sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam 1/3 : 1 | 2 | 3 | 4
  • Prophecies of the Prophet, sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam 2/3: 5 | 6 | 7 | 8
  • Prophecies of the Prophet, sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam 3/3: 9 | 10 | 11

By Ahmad Jibril

From Audio Islam

Suhaib Webb

  • Mothers of the Believers

Muhammad Alshareef

  • Lessons from The Life of Eesa Ibn Maryam


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